The Parents Daily is your source for advice and information for rasing your kids. 家長日報是你的來源，諮詢和信息育兒您的孩子。 Author: Gerald Dudley Ph D 作者：杰拉爾德達德利博士 Article source: http://www.articledeshboard.com/ . 文章來源： http://www.articledeshboard.com/ 。 Used with author's permission. 用作者的許可。 NURTURING CAREER PREPARATION: PARENT DUTIES培育生涯準備：父母的職責 Part 3: Middle School Age Youth第3部分：中學時代青年 Middle school students are in a developmental phase where they strive for independence, but cherish the safety of dependency.中學生正處於發育階段，他們爭取獨立，但珍惜的安全依賴。 This is a period of flux and uncertainty for many of them.這是一個時期的變化和不確定性的許多人。 Their community of perceived greatest support is among their peers, and apart from the home.他們的社會知覺最大的支持是他們的同齡人，除了在家。 This is the age span where parental duties related to career planning require patience and blatant support.這是年齡跨度在父母的職責相關的職業規劃需要耐心和公然的支持。 These adolescents now encounter several different teachers each day instead of just one.這些青少年現在遇到的幾個不同的教師每一天，而不只是一個。 There may also be a guidance counselor in the school.也可能是一個輔導的學校。 While the teachers will not likely infuse career concepts in their subject matter, the guidance person is responsible for scheduling the academic classes for your child.雖然教師將不太可能的職業生涯的概念注入在其標的物，人的指導，負責調度的學術類為您的孩子。 Your communication with the counselor should help plan the greatest variety in coursework to prepare for the broadest future career options.您的溝通與諮商應幫助計劃最大的不同在課程準備廣泛的未來職業選擇。 Don't bypass that opportunity!不要繞過這個機會！ During this period of development, peer group pressure is influenced through the many school and community youth groups available for joining.在此期間的發展，同儕團體壓力的影響，通過許多學校和社區青年團體可以加入。
Since self and relationship awareness is an important element in career planning at this age, your parent duty is to positively influence choices among these youth groups.由於自我意識的關係是一個重要的組成部分的職業生涯規劃這個年齡段的，你父母的責任是積極影響選擇在這些青年團體。 In all likelihood, you will be the transporter of your child to and from these group events.在所有的可能性，你將是轉運的您的孩子從這些團體活動。 Use that travel time to discuss the successes and disappointments during the meeting together of the group.使用旅行的時間來討論的成功和令人失望的會議期間共同工作組。 Discuss (not argue) primary ways your child might improve group behavior.討論（不爭論）主要方式您的孩子可能改善群體行為。 This private time of choice awareness will be a future benefit for the many career choices that emerge throughout life.這私人時間的選擇意識將成為未來效益的許多職業選擇產生的整個一生。 RESOURCES資源 An individual resource to use for estimating those occupations that relate to your child's current (though preliminary) vocational interests is available on the Internet site:careerfit-test.個人資源用於估計這些職業，涉及到你的孩子目前的（雖然初步）職業利益，是在互聯網上提供網址： careerfit檢驗。 The test results are a validated list of occupations, accompanied by a page of career resources to use for more detailed occupation exploration.測試結果是一個經審定的職業清單，並附有網頁的職業資源用於更詳細的職業探索。 Especially important for your parent role is the discovery of academic courses related to success in the occupations on the list.特別重要的是你父母的作用是發現的學術課程與成功的職業名單上。 A fun game that can be helpful for exploring work values can be created at home.遊戲樂趣無窮，可有助於探索工作價值觀可以建立在家裡。 The purpose of this game is to look at personal values important for job choice.這樣做的目的比賽是看個人的價值觀非常重要的就業選擇。 Fold a paper lengthwise and tear into two pieces.紙張折疊和縱向撕裂成兩塊。 On one piece draw eight lines equally spaced down the page.關於提請一張八條同樣距離下的網頁。 On the other piece write the work value words: income; prestige; leadership; help others; variety; leisure; security; and independence.另外一塊寫的工作價值關鍵詞：收入;威望;領導;幫助別人;品種;閒暇;安全;和獨立性。 Assign each value word 10 points.分配每個字價值10分。 Have game players decide which value would be the most important requirement in their chosen job.有玩家決定哪些價值將是最重要的要求，他們選擇的工作。 Do the same ranking with their next most important, and so on.做相同的排名與他們明年最重要的，等等。 Now, ask them to write only one value on each line they created on the first page.現在，請他們寫只有一個價值，他們的每一行上創建的第一頁。 Not all values need to be used and the same value may be written more than once, but the total can't be more than 80.並非所有的價值必須使用相同的值可能會寫入不止一次，但總額不能超過80個。 Share the results among the group.成果共享的一群。 Self-awareness is the goal of this fun exercise.自我意識的目標是，這一有趣的活動。 The premier internet-based career and high school planning program is licensed to schools, with the opportunity for students to log in on a home computer.溫家寶基於互聯網的職業生涯和高中的規劃項目是授權給學校，有機會為學生登錄的家用電腦。 With over thirty years of development, the DISCOVER program can be sampled on:act/discover.經過三十年的發展， Discover程序，您會發現：行為/發現。 Your duty should lead you to make influential school persons aware of the program and urge school or community service groups to fund its implementation, benefiting students.你們的責任應該導致你作出有影響力的學校的人了解該計劃，並敦促學校或社區服務團體，以資助其實施，受益學生。 This is the third in a series to outline parent duties that will enhance your child's career maturation, when applied throughout their formal education, and beyond.這是第三次了一系列概述父母的職責，這將提高您的孩子的職業成熟時，其適用於整個正規教育，並超出。 Your comments and suggestions are appreciated.您的意見和建議的讚賞。 The author has experience in developing and using the resources that are suggested in this article.作者經驗，開發和利用的資源，建議在這一條。 They are: www.careerfit-test.com and www.act.org/discover.它們是： www.careerfit - test.com和www.act.org /發現。 Both are excellent for consideration by parents.兩者都是優秀的，供家長。 If you are interested in using Careerfit content and pagelinks in publications and presentations, we encourage you to do so.如果您有興趣使用Careerfit內容和pagelinks的出版物和介紹，我們鼓勵您這樣做。 Please source the content as "Career Fit Test- careerfit-test.com".請源的內容為“職業體能測試， careerfit - test.com ” 。 | 
